Top 10 Reasons You Should Come Out Posted on May 24, 2021 by Sasha with 0 Comments Because it’s YOUR life and you are the only one that gets to live it. Regardless of your family’s opinions, or the people at your church,…
LDR’s and Dildo Etiquette Posted on May 5, 2021 by Sasha with 0 Comments A reader wrote in: I’m currently in a LDR with a butch and I am femme. She recently came to visit and we bought a dildo…
Advice For Mixed Message Lesbians Posted on April 26, 2021 by Sasha with 0 Comments I recently got this little email asking for some advice. And before I share it with you, let me apologize to all of you that I…
Lesbian Dating 101: Who Pays? Posted on November 8, 2019 by Sasha with 0 Comments Who pays on a lesbian date? That is a recurring question from many readers over many years and I can see why, because the answer isn't…
VLOG!!!! Are you gay? And what NOT to do with your bestie!! Posted on May 6, 2015 by Sasha with 6 Comments Holy cow I vlogged!!!! It's been what? 5 or 6 years since my last one?! I kept waiting for the 'right time' but that is never…
Butches with Ink Posted on May 6, 2012 by Sasha with 43 Comments A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing ;) Her question to…
CCL Meets the Huffington Post!!!! Posted on January 19, 2012 by Sasha with 24 Comments Guess who's the newest blogger for the Huffington Post's Gay Voices? Yep .... that would be me. :) How did this happen?? Well let's just say…
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ???? Posted on March 20, 2010 by Sasha with 52 Comments So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she's the "butch" in the relationship ... duhhhh ..... but she doesn't identify as butch.…