How To Kiss Girls
I recently received the following email: (slightly edited for anonymity) Hi Sasha! My name is M, and I just have a few questions for you, because…
A Young Butch
I just read a comment from a young reader and she asks for some advice on figuring out if she's butch or not. As you…
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ????
So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she's the "butch" in the relationship ... duhhhh ..... but she doesn't identify as butch.…
When you realize you’re a lesbian ….
I’m in a constant state of awe at my total lack of self-awareness as far as figuring out I was a lesbian. I mean really, how…
Passive Butch vs. Aggressive Femme
I thought that when I started dating butch women that things would be easier, clearer in some ways. That perhaps some semblance of psuedo-gender roles might…
Do you choose the femme identity or does it choose you?
I was looking on Amazon for a book about the butch/femme dynamic and I saw a book called “Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity” and I was…