Hot New Gender Neutral Fashion Label Posted on October 6, 2015 by Sasha with 1 Comment I recently received this very cool invite, see below, to attend the launch party to one of my favorite and highly anticipated labels, Sharpe. Which I would…
What’s Your Tag Line? Butch? Femme? Gay? Posted on November 18, 2012 by Sasha with 27 Comments I am constantly trying to figure out a way to fight femme invisibility. I get emails every week from poor little femmes that can't convince the…
Butches with Ink Posted on May 6, 2012 by Sasha with 43 Comments A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing ;) Her question to…
A Young Butch Posted on December 9, 2010 by Sasha with 44 Comments I just read a comment from a young reader and she asks for some advice on figuring out if she's butch or not. As you…
Butch, Tomboi, Boi ???? Posted on March 20, 2010 by Sasha with 52 Comments So Remi and I have this ongoing discussion about how she's the "butch" in the relationship ... duhhhh ..... but she doesn't identify as butch.…
Femme vs. Butch …. shouldn’t it be Butch + Femme? Posted on May 8, 2008 by Sasha with 10 Comments What I’ve noticed when I talk to most lesbians is that they have a strong opinion on butch women. Maybe it’s just because we’re in…
Do you choose the femme identity or does it choose you? Posted on May 3, 2008 by Sasha with 6 Comments I was looking on Amazon for a book about the butch/femme dynamic and I saw a book called “Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity” and I was…