Congratualtions! You’re Gay!
Dear Sasha, I am writing to you hoping that you can help me. I am 22 years old and I think I'm gay. I think I'm…
10 Signs You’re Dating the Wrong Person
I have a few single girlfriends that come to me for dating advice along with the random emails from readers telling me about their loveless love…
Femme Tips
I just received a call for help from a fellow femme sister. She is tired of being mistaken for a member of PFLAG at gay events.…
Advice for a Femme with a Butch Problem
Hi Sasha, I've recently become addicted to your blog, especially all the butch/femme threads. I'm in Australia and haven't really had all that much exposure…
Advice for a Lovely Slovakian
Dear Sasha, erm, I don't even know how to start all this and I really don't know why I'm writing to you either but...maybe it's…
Butches with Ink
A close friend of ours asked me if I took requests. Do I take requests?? Honey puh-leez! I’m all about pleasing ;) Her question to…
A Young Butch
I just read a comment from a young reader and she asks for some advice on figuring out if she's butch or not. As you…
Mixed Messages & Gym Buddies
OK, sooooooo ..... a very loyal reader and commenter .... who shall remain nameless, unless she wants to out herself (please feel free to in the…