Let’s Pontificate On Our Gayness …. All Day Long
Today a straight friend of mine said to me, “Why do you talk about being gay all the time? It’s not like I run around all…
Long Beach Pride & Club Sauvage
Hey ladies, as all of you local girls already know it's Long Beach Pride this weekend! Thank gawd, since I am in serious need of some…
If you want a best friend, pick a lesbian.
Tonight at our weekly “club” meeting I was immersed in a deep conversation with my girlfriends about why lesbians seem to be able to form closer,…
How can I look Gayer? Yep. GAYER.
Women are the most delicious thing on this planet. I just can’t tell you how proud I am to be an out lesbian in LA. Since…
This Lezzy Lives by a Code
Since I’ve started Card Carrying Lesbian I’ve been surprised and a little hurt when a friend here or there would confide something in me and then…
Hard Femmes
As you can see by the post date on this, it's another one I pulled from the archives and I wrote this long before the…
Femme vs. Butch …. shouldn’t it be Butch + Femme?
What I’ve noticed when I talk to most lesbians is that they have a strong opinion on butch women. Maybe it’s just because we’re in…
Do you choose the femme identity or does it choose you?
I was looking on Amazon for a book about the butch/femme dynamic and I saw a book called “Brazen Femme: Queering Femininity” and I was…